How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 00:47

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why would my ex block me after I blocked him?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Why do some straight men enjoy wearing women's lingerie?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Does not procrastinate.
Ask yourself:
Why am I dreaming of people I've never seen before?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Hangs out with loser friends.
I have the power to talk to aliens through using telepathy. Why do people think I'm crazy?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Procrastinates a lot.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
I've never read the book. What did Dorian Grey do that was so immoral and sinful?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Overthinking is killing me day-by-day. What should I do?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How do you write a letter to your uncle who sent you money for your birthday outfit?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What are some cool confidence hacks?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What are some tips for braiding a woman's hair on a date?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What I need from you?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.